University Life ( Expectation vs Reality)
Assalamualaikum,
Expectation about university life :
- I will have a boyfriend/girlfriends
-can do everything I want to, party all time, freedom
-no more homework
-have more friends
-have lot of money
-can have a better appearance(since don’t have to wear school uniform)
But actually life isn’t that easy dude!
Reality about university life :
-if you’re forever alone then you’re forever alone because everyone got their partner already. Yes you have the chance but not everyone is lucky dude.
-if you think you can do everything you want to, party all time, freedom you’re totally wrong. Yes maybe there’s no one can control you because it’s the time where you need to control your self. You will understand how hard life is. Not everyone will be besides you, back stabber everywhere, they close to you for good only. But this is reality where at this moment you will miss your family members, and bff. You have to divide your time wisely because no one will care about it. There are no mum or dad to help you manage(maybe you can ask their help through phone but it’s different) you need to control your money; for food, book, transportation etc.
-no more homework but you have assignment, tutorial, lab report, group discussion, meeting*,paperwork*(*= if you join any association)
-have more friends? Yaa maybe you will have many friends but choose wisely.
- you only can have lot of money if you do part time work/ online business and manage your money wisely. You should be able to differentiate between needs and indeed/ desire
- basically your appearance will become better, neater. But please do not waste your money so you will look fascinating, glamour. As long as neat and modest, it’s great already. Besides physical, you also need a pleasant behaviour and character. Remember a good looking catch the eyes but good manner catch the heart.
So this is the basic expectations reality about university life. I will tell my own experience later. See y’all later. Bye! :)
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